In 1139 Offenses Will Come, Rev. Catania shows us from the scriptures that nobody can say that they are clean and without sin except for Jesus. Offenses will come sooner or later. We are still required to keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace. God does not ask you to do something you cannot do. Matthew 18:15 tells us to confront an individual who has offended you alone. 90 % of the time, that handles the situation right there. We are not to gossip. We are to forgive each other and that helps us keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace. That's how you practically deal with offenses. .